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Porcelain doll, What are you hiding behind the door?

 

Photo by Alexander Suhorucov from PEXEL

One of the great evils in the world is always trying to pretend because if you don't fit the standards, the world decides to mold you to preference.

Another very big problem is accepting our appearance, especially when it is not what is commonly found in the expected standards, people are filled with advertising, advertisements, and commercials full of beautiful, aesthetically beautiful people, women with beautiful hair with bee waist and perfect tan; muscular, tall and manly men. In social networks, perfect skin prevails, generally created with makeup and beautiful faces that are far from common reality, it is when in the heads of people, especially young people, a small bee begins to hover that carries with it a question. and that it will be able to grow, grow, and grow until it becomes the biggest bee you have ever seen, and with it the doubt grows: Am I not a pretty person?


Currently, many movements promote the acceptance of all types of bodies as beautiful, we are all imperfect, but in our imperfections, we show beauty differently from anyone else, so most companies have begun to innovate their products to adapt to the new era.

Even so, there is still a large number of people who let themselves be carried away by what society says, and society still has a very strong hold on what should or should not be.

Different types of hair, different skin colors, different body types, different eye colors, different eyebrow shapes, different smiles, different noses, different upper and lower trunks, different EVERYTHING. How can you have a standard, when we are all different? How can you define who is beautiful and who is not? In any case, it would be a personal decision to decide whether or not one is beautiful.


Even what you wear is judged by others. What if I wanted to wear completely blue for a whole week, what would they have to say? What if I wanted to wear a skirt every day from now on? What if I wanted to wear vibrant-colored dresses all the time, would that affect you? That doesn't affect anyone other than you. Why judge people's clothing so much? Clothing is a perfect way to be identified, to identify yourself.


So what if I don't accept people forcing me to be something I'm not?


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